WEDDING FEATURE
That
Bride!
Behind the Wedding Scenes with "Lifestyle Photojournalist"
Robert Williams
If you're looking for Robert Williams on the day of the wedding,
don't expect to find him standing up-close-and-personal with the
bride and her guests, provoking reactions for the camera. That's
not how he works. Unlike wedding shooters who actively engage the
wedding party to get a response, Williams stays behind the scenes,
looking for emotions as they happen—without his direction.
That's not only part of his shooting strategy, he explains, but of
his own personal philosophy of respecting the bride and her guests.
"The day of the wedding, it's not about me," he says. "It's about
her."
A native of Mississippi, Williams recognizes that his soft-spoken
Southern manner and values serve him well for the wedding business:
good for soothing anxious brides, promoting communication, and
building enduring relationships. But they're virtues that you might
not have predicted from his resume.
A graduate of Texas A&M University with a degree in
engineering, math, and Spanish, he began his professional life with
the U.S. Department of Commerce. Being a career bureaucrat,
however, was never his passion. It was a path he chose at the
urging of his family—and particularly, his loving but
practical mother: "Get a good job," she advised him, "something
other than taking pictures."
Eight years into a new career in the picture business, however,
son-Robert is doing quite well, thank-you, shooting for
Bloomingdale's and Elegant Bride magazine, winning the
praises of his clients, and steadily gaining the recognition of his
peers, including being named by Washingtonian magazine as
one of the top wedding photographers in the elite and highly
competitive Virginia-Washington, D.C. corridor. "I didn't feel
challenged in my government jobs," he explains, "so I made a
decision to start doing what I love." He now caters exclusively to
professional couples in the high-end wedding market, and limits his
bookings to about 30 a year.
THE PERSONAL TOUCH
"I always knew I wanted my wedding work to be different," he says.
"I didn't want it to look like every other traditional wedding
photographer's. So I'm always looking for ways to make my work
distinctive." For Williams, that has meant setting no limits on
himself either in terms of his creativity or the range of his
clientele. Or of his market. Not restricted to locations in the
D.C. area, he shoots wherever his clients take him—Hawaii,
Cancun, Mexico, Houston, Atlanta, Palm Beach, and New York City, to
name a few.
Describing his approach as "lifestyle photojournalism," Williams
explains that his goal is to document the unique personality of the
bridal party, while remaining unobtrusive. "I don't take over the
wedding. I spend a great deal of time getting to know the bride,
getting a specific list of posed shots she wants, and then I tell
the bride, `I don't want to talk to you on the wedding day' (unless
she asks, of course!). She's not getting married to spend her day
talking to the photographer. But the greatest moment for me is when
she looks at her wedding book, sees a great shot, and then wonders,
`Where were you?'"
How does he do it? "I shoot a lot with long lenses and, as much as
possible, with available light. And we're very organized. I keep
the posed pictures down to 15 minutes or less. And I will not pull
the bride away from her guests." That's part of what he calls "the
little intangibles" that make his work distinctive, he says. "But I
can't be everything to everybody. And if I don't feel that I'm a
good match with a client, I'll make a referral to a colleague. I
not only need for you to feel comfortable with me, I need to feel
comfortable with you, as well." When their goals are in sync,
however, Williams goes about creating a truly unique book, full of
refreshing candids, freely spontaneous action shots, and
terrifically joyful moments.
"I shoot from the heart, not the head," he says. "Sometimes you see
a shot and your head says, `don't shoot that'; but your heart says,
`get it'—and that's the one the client falls head over heals
with." But it's a canny, intuitive kind of heart, it should be
said, rather than simply an emotional one.
He recalls, for example, a time when the bride and groom were
riding in a classic `57 T-bird convertible, slowly approaching him
in heavy traffic along Chevy Chase Circle. (p. 30) "I stopped my
Blazer in the middle of the street and jumped out to get the
shot—but saw that I only had one exposure left on the
camera!" With no time to reload, he had to wait—passing up
the first, the second, and third expected shot, in favor of one
final exposure, snapped just as the bride waved while passing him
by. "The first couple of shots would have been fine, but that
one-and-only shot turned out to be better. I knew I had to get it,
and fortunately, I did." Williams shoots with Krystal McKinney, a
like-minded assistant who often shares the praise in his clients'
testimonials. "We just seem to know what the other is thinking," he
explains. Their crowd-pleasing wireless headsets, however, also
allow them to stay in constant communication.
At the wedding, he shoulders both a Hasselblad, for color, and a
Canon EOS- 1N, for B&W, relying for candids on the Canon
70-200mm f/2.8 and the super fast 85mm f/1.2. But he'll also shoot
candids with the `blad's 160mm; and uses high-speed versions of
Portra for color and T-Max for B&W. Lately, he's also been
capturing digital images with a Canon D30, providing the bride with
a nice carry-away book on the day of the wedding, and a traditional
album on her return from the honeymoon.
"Go with the flow," Williams counsels his brides. "If something
unexpected happens—and it often can—keep smiling, no
matter what!" That's good advice from someone who escaped a
career-cubicle in government service for the freedom of being
challenged to capture for posterity the unpredictable moments of a
wedding day. But the risk has paid off many times over, he
says.
And what does Mrs. Williams think now of her son abandoning that
"more practical" career in government? "Robert," she told him,
"this is one time I'm glad you didn't take my advice."
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